Bismillah ir Rahman ir Raheem.
So this past weekend, we went to New York City.
I’d been dreaming of visiting NYC since I was very very young. I wanted to make a real weekend of it. Drive in and live at a motel and really get to see everything. On foot, on the subway, in cabs and in the car.
But it wasn’t meant to be. I’ve been unexpectedly ill for a few weeks now. Our New York weekend got downgraded to a New York tour. Which are usually 8 hours plus.
I didn’t feel up to that. No, really. Me. Who could jump up and down for 5 hours straight. Who spent three days on my feet shooting a short film. I didn’t feel up to it.
So instead we visited the Intrepid Air and Space Museum (my husband’s really into planes and war memorabilia). It was really cool.
West Manhattan is kind of gross and smelly and crowded though. And the Trump Place buildings right next to the museum are a real eyesore.
But it was nice too. The pall fell from my eyes a bit, I have to say. But that’s okay. It’s just a city. It’s not Heaven. Maybe I’ll find the life there if I went looking.
Which brings me to me.
I’m a real perfectionist. I don’t even want to attempt something until it’s perfect. To a degree that’s a good thing. But it also leads to feelings of despair, obsession (that’s one of my favorites). Not to mention when I enter the realm of rapidly diminishing returns.
Hard work is good. Perfectionism isn’t.
My latest screenplay seems to have a fairly solid structure. But it lacks flesh. I’m working on the flesh now. It’s new territory for me. I’ve not drawn on my own life. I’m writing different ethnicities, different ages and different genders. And the dysfunction of the family very much depends on the internal dysfunction of the characters. Which is what I’m drilling into right now. It’s a little scary. But kind of exciting.
I’m not going to wait till things are perfect though. I’m going to launch it when it’s ready. And not when I’m ready.
Which brings me to something else. A complete non-sequitur.
I don’t usually talk politics or world affairs on this blog. But this one hits a little too close to home. My home.
Regardless of what the BBS say…Sri Lanka is my home. Regardless of whether I speak the language (I don’t) or look the part (I don’t), Sri Lanka is my home (so kill me).
I can’t explain it. Maybe it’s because almost every member of both sides of my family are still there. Maybe because every family story I’ve ever heard has been set there. Maybe because it just feels like it. And I don’t need to justify myself to anybody.
But apparently now I do.
I want most dearly to make movies in Sri Lanka. I have some radical sci-fi fantasy ideas I’d love to set there. To think that I wouldn’t be welcome, and that I wouldn’t be allowed to explore my own past, cuts a lot deeper than I thought it would.
If I’m not Sri Lankan, what am I? A Muslim woman, I guess.
No! No, I’m not going to let someone take away my identity because they feel like it. Sri Lankan Muslim Woman. Deal with it.
I bet no one has ever dared tell a white man that he isn’t white. Though I guess even white men have been chased from their homes.
Here’s what I think the worst-case scenario will be:
BBS start looting Muslim towns and Muslim properties.
The Muslims who can, scarper overseas.
The others stay and are butchered.
Or convert to survive.
You see, Sri Lankan Muslims, we’re not the fighting kind. People say that when you push us far enough, we’ll push back. But not us. We have nothing to push with. Not a fighting bone in our bodies. We’re all biryani and weddings and businesses. That’s all we are.
Yes, there’s fury. But I don’t think we’d ever harm another human being. We haven’t so far. We have simply run away.
But perhaps I’m wrong. Perhaps we will form our own militia and fight back. Be branded a terrorist group probably. Who’ll support us financially and with training? Our own businessmen? Probably not. We’re making too much money overseas and don’t want to be blacklisted. The Muslim Sri Lankan diaspora? Again, I think they’d largely be too scared. Who then? Boko Haram? ISIS? Al Qaeda? They have no interest in the region.
So what then? Massacre.
Then no more Muslims in Sri Lanka. At least not openly.
You know what people call that usually? Genocide. Pogroms.
What will people call it now? Absolutely nothing.
No one will come to our aid.
Not the first time I’ve been betrayed. But I really never expected blood.
All I can pray for now is that I still have a home to go. And all of my Muslim brothers and sisters too.
Lots of love and peace,
The Happy Muslimah